25 comfort yourself; been free and easy life
The first consolation: The most important is that today's heart;
Why regret for the pain to lose the mood now, why worry for the inexplicable suicide out of fear. The past is gone, no matter how regret is useless.'s Future is still elusive, no matter how worried are will be empty sad. Today heart, and now people do today, but it is real, is also feeling good. Of course, past experience to summarize, to prevent future risk, this is wisdom.
Yesterday is over, and tomorrow is yet to come, today is real.
Second consolation: only his own heartache treatment;
Why regret for the pain to lose the mood now. Occasionally vent about complaints, but also very necessary, but the endless complaining about it would only create trouble but to show to others their own impotence, complaining is a fatal negative attitude Once your complaint will become a habit so dark life, not just their own state of mind no good, but others have bad luck followed.
Complained that no good, optimistic is the most important.
The third comfort: good state of mind is its own creation;
We often can not change the opinions of others, can change just by ourselves. A bad life is not someone else's sin, but in our hearts become bad. Life is not getting better golden key to the hands of others, to give up our resentment and sigh, good life on the fingertips. We wanted a good life subjectively, but objectively speaking, there is no good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve the lives
Do not expect to change other people, the masters of their own lives to do.
Fourth comfort: hard to do their own thing to do;
Life is so short, what the people wanted to be wasted? Wise philosopher once said: Some people call me the street, I even went straight, and did not want to know the boring person! 'We are not going to hurt others, do not be so critical of others, or in accordance with their wishes, the first down-learn the skills to say.
Especially in youth, to go all out to learn skills, do not get distracted.
The fifth consolation: Do always make life difficult for themselves with their own;
Learn to appreciate their own, they will have to obtain the golden key to happiness, they are not idle and enjoy and appreciate that they are not conceited, appreciate that they are not self-satisfaction, nor stand still ... enjoy your own interest to some of his letters to his own little happy themselves for a look of a smile, worry that the life happy?
Often to their own festivals, learned to look for feelings of pleasure.
Sixth comfort: Do not chase the secular honor;
Life-long search for the so-called other people recognized things, will never lost his joy and happiness. Vulgar comments will be smoke is their personality, will make their own secular pointing loss. For money, but money itself disowned, for the right of the right make their own reckless, in the name of their clever name will take to usurp the real chase I deliberately among the debris will become a wind carries Zhang, secular, I have become terrifying.
Kitsch has been lost is true, to strengthen their confidence, a self-.
Seventh comfort: extreme undesirable;
Often because of concerns over some of which led to his mental disorders, but because of some insensitive, resulting in their own inaction on everything. The former is often painful search for a rational, intelligent too far because of the decline is rooted in nothing foolish regret. After do not know why regret things, all day long sleepwalk life, living and dead makes no difference.
Extremes are always tragic failure to find the wisdom of life.
Eighth comfort: Do not make a fuss of being judged;
Not a painting is not the evaluation by others, no one is being talked about in the. If their silence, some people will blame 'shrewdness too'; own if the good conversationalist, someone will accuse rhetoric; own if the praise others Some people will say that people with ulterior motives, if the well-intentioned criticism of their own, some people will fly into a rage, that nosy.
Just look at someone else's face, he still live not live with themselves, not confined to self.
Ninth comfort: the more evil the more deep pain;
Why can not calmly life? Key is to not drive away the hearts of demons in time. Because the feel evil thought, would not be sensible to restrain myself, and often stupid things that make remorse. Because there is no time cleaning the soul the dust, those who are weak on from time to time fall into the pit. as always possessed, would make stupid blind eyes into the wrong fork in the road do not know.
Bad heart, they distracted to evil.
Tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired;
It is often lamented, live Zhen Lei. Tired is mental pressure; tired,
Is a heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn to relax, you live in a Zhang Chi. My heart is weary, people trapped in long-term health; heart tired, make their own spiritual weak.
Do not mind too tired to learn to free himself.
Eleventh comfort: everyone has their own living law;
The pain of his own clear, its sad they understand, their own feelings of happiness, and perhaps their own eyes the hell, it is another man's paradise, and perhaps their own in the eyes of heaven, it is another man's hell, life is such a Funny, do not always suspect Spring in others, the key is to adjust their mentality to live their lives over the most important, do not climb better than.
Twelfth comfort: not to desire the slaves;
People always sigh 'moths to flame,' people always teased 'fish hook', people always joke 'since became bogged down'. However, if you think carefully, we live around the tragedy of this desire is also less it? insufficient She Tunxiang people. indulge their souls will eventually lose true freedom! must always guard against bad desire.
Thirteenth comfort: take life easy and happy;
Not blind comparisons with others, their will be leisurely, not to set too high goals in life, their joy will often not deliberate pursuit of perfection that he would be away from the pain, not always demanding their own, their own free will to live do not often find fault, their will be easy.
Will be too tired to live in pain, contentment!
Fourteenth comfort: embrace life will be like their own;
Blindly arrogant self-esteem is the pride of life, ignorance, blindly give up on themselves, is the pessimism of life. Understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. The right to have a healthy self-esteem, particularly the face of setbacks will be shown strong. The temptation of the outside world is not lost self, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often certainly appreciate his optimism.
Fifteenth comfort: more than seeing the world with the good;
Water is too clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. Everywhere can not tolerate the faults of others, then everyone becomes bad, will not be able to live in peace. To look at the world of evil, the world is broken and invalid everywhere; with good vision to see the world, the world always lovable. himself to look at other people's strengths, the more likely look more lovely.
Sixteenth comfort: do not blindly to please others;
It is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, deliberately to please others will only make people tired of, people close to nature, speculative mentality to change, time to please, less encouraged to go to work, to please someone else is always precarious, their only real effort.
Blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important.
Seventeenth comfort: a done deal would have to go with the flow;
Mature rice raw rice has been boiled, go remorse previous behavior, point benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to properly handle things behind, do not let things worse, the water is pouring out Neither can be retrieved , has been carved wooden boat is not restitution, and that these simple truth, you can calmly deal with legacy issues. Remorse without any benefits, not to take things worse.
Eighteenth comfort: Although poor psychological material is not down and out;
Poor in material is not terrible, terrible poverty is psychological. Often associated with the down and out of poverty, human poverty and ambition is often related to mental poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can become rich. Poor in material with despair, will quickly destroy a person's body, self-confidence, although for the time being poor in material, but the good days will soon come
Poor people to go rather short, self-improvement.
Nineteenth comfort: blessing in bad trouble in the blessed;
Mo was a moment of gains and losses carried away, blindly intoxicated temporary victory, their must be prepared not to play grown arrogant, complacent, intoxicating victory means stop stop, intoxicated with victory, means the loss of vigilance, life on the road to never agitated unremitting, victory is just a small road sign. To win the final victory, only the effort, more effort.
Mo was a moment of confused too, who laugh at the latest, who smiled the most fun.
Twentieth comfort: It is important to live enriched;
Every day is too good to the greatest happiness, happiness comes from feeling good every day, worried about tomorrow's overall risk, the total can erase the shadow of yesterday, today, how can the lives of wishful? General comparisons are not comparisons of the total fantasy that can not be achieved, how quiet mood today? Unrealistic things, are the source of the pain, the biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety,
Suffering from non-full, enriching life, not cranky.
Twenty-one consolation: there are degrees of life should be fun;
Recreational activities appropriate to regulate emotions, endless joy is easy to transfer benefits harm. Anti-matter is very few poor is change, "Generally Willful Department, that is sick Office." "Chess can be laid off idle, easily tempted fire.". . . Carnival is a wonderful time for a shallow drum taste of life in exchange for the often painful remorse. Have fun there is a degree of philosophical life, Queer not limited to entertainment, involving all aspects of life.
Joy and sadness are associated, joy joy often accompanied by a degree of will.
Twenty-two comfort: for a living law may be more happy;
When their work in extremely liking, everywhere are feeling the wall, whether it is necessary a change of scenery? When his very unhappy in marriage, constantly feeling is icehouse, have the courage to break through the knot? When asked to live their own accustomed, will stand tall to say "no"? Confident, able and self-reliant, able to adjust their living conditions,
Do not be too useless to live comfortable Wizard of pleasure.
Twenty-three consolation: may wish to temporarily put aside bothering;
Life is too bitter short, why should always live their unhappy. Worries are normal, no worries is not normal. If your heart feel good, we might go to the movies, may wish to listen to some music, may wish to sing a song, may wish to make a phone call, may wish to enjoy the sun. . .
Hell to trouble his mind, first a happy happy.
Twenty-four consolation: the foundation of joy in himself;
Most people in life always pleasant, and placed in external affairs, attached to secular identity, the status of all sorts of value, property, and treatment, reputation and other things as soon as the loss of these is a heavy blow, often lose, their the foundation of happiness and joy also will destroy, if indeed it had its own life, then we want to be far from happy, why let other people to assess their happiness, a good grasp of their own.
Twenty-five consolation: feeling happy is happy. . .
Many are deliberately pursue the so-called happiness; although some have been, its costs are huge and many philosophers have said that happiness is a kind of feeling. The feeling of happiness and satisfaction with the decrease, and the people's state of mind, closely related to psychology. Sages say: get the more difficult, deeper love, with happiness, often thought difficult. One can always feel happiness is the greatest tragedy of his own.
Happiness is a kind of feeling, I do not know enough, never be happy.
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