Only live once, do not live too tired
You only live once, do not live too tired
Only live once! It is often forgotten sense. Since you only live once, you should pay attention to point "living law." Why live so tired, his tortures himself to do?
Live is too tired tired heart. Situation of poor do not need bitter, life How then always have smooth sailing? The boss of a dissatisfied glance why not on the air for five minutes to slow in the next life, you plenty of performance opportunities, let alone "iron yamen water official," This is the unchangeable fact. Think of these you will become calm; see other people do not have to envy the performance of prominent belly up, jealousy harmful to health. As long as you do what on the line.
Since only live once, you should live comfortable and live happy, live unrestrained. Work too fast, too much stress, too feisty heart, life is too erratic, time is not long, mental and physical collapse. Original four-year-old, almost senile mental and physical strength, more money, what use? Shakespeare has cursed gold: golden gold ah, you are the common whore of mankind! You can make the U.S. get ugly, so ugly can be beautiful; you can make wrong into right, we can make right into wrong; you can become the living dead, it can become the living dead! To get the golden gold, Liangjianvzi when whore, good guy into a bandit! I curse you, damn gold! Marx had predicted: that one day sooner or later people will use the gold to cover the toilet! Of course, the penny may no man, no money to not work. However, as long as the end of the wage guarantee, why more vapid pursuit of the accumulation of his life too!
Comfortable to live and live happy, live smart, we should learn to be content, learn to go with the flow. Contentment, go with the flow is happiness. We have money and momentum, the right of the people, all people. As are all human, there is no need to tender mercies, smiling ask for help! After all, life is not acting, do not use too many cosmetics to smear yourself, do not wear a "mask" to "in the fun!" Would like to laugh and smile, like to sing songs, whereby a few are carefully earn calm, live simple and natural, live Tan sway. This is comfortable, this is happiness, this is chic!
They have much "energy", how many accomplishments capable, there should be a self-knowledge. Of course, we should strive to fight for glory when plain; in brilliant time, we should also clearly see the mountains outside the mountain, not "the one in charge." This prevents the impetuous, to avoid the error. Although it is good to create brilliant, but the miracle of the production is often a combination of factors, the favorable factors increase the opportunity, the same lack of which can only be lost by the wayside, this is the so-called "man proposes be done in the day" also!
Therefore, as long as our lives are in a realistic way to officer, even if not anything brilliant creation, but also can feel the real life, the pursuit of happiness, also can be "fishers of solid gratifying, no fish are happy," also! Life too much trouble and sorrow Zaibu Dong! Only inner calm, frankly, can not go without music. If we can hold a normal, sit down at the clouds from the cloud, Huakaihuaxie, term vicissitudes of life, cloud water can be a long period of good mood. Do the norm and do ordinary people to maintain peace of mind, the psychological balance, if the best we can in this mood to deal with each day, we will be full of sunshine each day, filled with hope.
Stubborn to give up their free
Our rich and colorful, our world is complicated, so our troubles will be more pressure will be even greater. We often encounter this situation: a friend made an appointment at your business, you come to the party, friends first say hello, ask if you success in your work. Attention! Friend did give sentence, such as burst the flood began. Shut up. You will hear the complaining side of injustice, unfairness of life and life's unfortunate; complain about others and their own should something back ... ..., when your heart again and again to complain over, this afternoon considered wasted.
Grievances many people's minds, but in the final analysis, are caused because people's opinionated. Do not say that they have received education, quality is high, people are very generous, it was only one-sided representation, in fact, everyone will have a stubborn side, and up will be difficult to change once stubborn. How can you know your obstinate? May wish to control the following question to a pair of opinionated diagnosis.
1, you always keep complaining
Eyes from the morning one, you will hate the night is too short in the face of the mirror Xingsong the sleepy eyes, you have to wash their faces with cold water. Lack of sleep so thin, "caterpillar" unwittingly climb your face, you fear have missed on the fast and youth. Damn work, damn work and rest time, damn manager, damn pay less impressive. To get out and usher in the air is not fresh hell. Sell early in where the traffic so why bother ... ... Think about all day complaining about the work that we do not know how sad the heart.
2, you have completely lost their sense of humor
With colleagues at work place conflicts, Lao Liu insisted that they are right, one morning in this angry. Lunch break to, Lao Liu beat a man Men Men eating a pork chop. Xiao Zhang Xiao Yan, carrying Fanpen amused children came over, "Hey, a man alone to eat food?" Xiao Zhang is not so re-opening, Lao Liu at the very start a "rolling", Xiao Zhang will be moved moodily away. Jokes do not know, life without respite. So when their emotional well being casually as angry, completely lost a sense of humor, you should pay attention to, and is your stubbornness are at play.
3 told you to, it seems that everyone stubborn
First sound to these words seem strange, how each individual will also face their own stubbornness, but the fact is that often, so you unconsciously do not know how to face others, to face itself. In fact, this is your heart stubborn in trouble, when your thoughts have changed, you feel all the external events will change with your change. Naturally, when you can not fully accept the views of others, you will begin to have a closed mind, listen to absorb the advice does not address the origin of things, you would think that people are against you and opinionated. Then you lose the solutions and opportunities.
4, it is hard for others to come with you
A lot of work has gone smoothly thanks to the cooperation of groups, groups of forces can not be ignored. Whether the person with you how bad your eyes, you can not underestimate his ability to work. Subdivision up nothing of a person to work independently, and respect for each individual, do not underestimate the capacity of each person because each person in his position would you play an irreplaceable role.
5, each task must be a tremendous effort to complete
Doing nothing is not easy, but do not want anything too difficult, in fact, done a lot of things will be smooth, not as you think as a lot of resistance.
6, there is nothing to make you satisfied
You are a perfectionist, nothing could make you satisfied, your pronoun is "may," "okay", "not satisfied", you will think your the most perfect standard. But you do not forget, there is an old saying that say: stand tall and fall in weight. Always end up hurt themselves.
7, happy and enthusiastic people who make you upset
There are always around us enthusiasts, the day a good mood to being, to see if other people have difficulties to help themselves. These people seem to make you irritated, your indifference, self-confidence and ability to face life, face the business, know when to be put to be received, without concern for others. Do not forget, you still smooth and slick, and then leak, but also does not work side, because you normal, you have a vulnerable side.
8, you endeavoring to prevent the people involved in what you are doing
This is not the only source of trust. Do not believe in the capacity of others, blind pursuit of personal fulfillment. If you overcome the above point 4, it also well settled. Do you fear that other people will be bad things, no assurance will not go wrong, regardless of the outcome, there is always someone else's ideas you learn good things.
9, it will not tell you important information, you will feel excluded
One day you will find people talking in secret, you ask about the side, others are vague talk about, as if this matter has nothing to do with you. The heart to relax more, maybe none of your business, know pleased to hear of a burden. Even if their own, let others say about it, I am me, a point is not easy.
Stubborn is a disease, a psychological disease, a person's health is not only physical health, more important is psychological not ill. If more than 9 points a match between your best way to learn to give up, abandon their dogmatic free.
First of all, give your opinions and viewpoints have been adhered to. No matter what, if you walk the road ahead very difficult, may wish to self-test to see if they have been upholding the views and opinions. Try to give them, the saying goes, take a step backward Well, if there will be an opportunity to remedy errors and re-back will have more power.
Second, get your position clear to adhere to what kind of make you pay the price. Think of it in fact circuitous tactics, what are not hard on the hard battle. Even if you won a tough, go back, also perceive the body scales array to injury damage. Any conflicts are created by people with great assertion with people is the most troublesome thing. This situation, to retreat, not better.
Again, make sure you return it worth your while to stick to their position on the price. I remember in a film was a revelation: a boy of 20 U.S. dollars to lend the students, after his classmates saw him and ran, ran, said, "Sorry, not today, two days later I still you." Every time it has been long overdue, which makes the boy was angry. He then told the story to have to take care of his boss. Boss asked him that students are able to repay you, he said no. Boss asked of his students is your friend, he said that the students hate, he does not like. , The boss told him: first error in you, you should not lend money to people you do not understand. Second, the error is still in you, you consider the problem of wrong ideas, you can always use the 20 dollars out of this you do not like people, are not worth you.
Everyone there is stubborn, and sometimes the mistakes of others, may wish to go willingly with him, try to look at the problem from another angle; sometimes our mistakes, as trying to shirk its responsibility to accuse others, did not say, you apology; work, commitment to understand and respect each other's work patterns, in this basis, together create a new partnership.
Learn to be tolerant, benevolent heart to treat people, relationships and personal life to assume full responsibility, because, you are master of your life.
Do not think too highly of gains and losses
When the young gather, when the old discarded. This is sad enough, while life is more sad is that live to the end, will lose even the ability to discard. All we seek, will ultimately lose. The character is the most valuable knowledge will be lost, still dare to pursue.
Everyone's life, the former half to attack, and the second to wait. Life should be won and lost, regained.
The so-called lost it, that is, the pursuit of a first, wait for the later, with the gradual old age, physical deterioration is inevitable, we would be wise to gradually weaken the calculation of skill, so the savings gradually lost youth.
As found again, refers to old age, our memories in recession, but the accumulated wisdom of life is still, especially on clear understanding of life accessible thinking on the pros and cons of casual attitude, it can neither young enterprises and that this kind of "only the approach of dusk" before the "sun sets" is a life after boarding extremely high, lush life, how can you it?
So do not "lose" the great frustration of life as a big setback, and major failures. "Not the old and new do not come", the original is lost and a new order in front of me waiting. The world's never-ending, life is always natural to look ahead, "lost" will become negligible.
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