
How to make couples forever lover!
A few days ago I went to a class, find it very beneficial, free today, just to friends to share it. The theme of this lesson - how to make the couple a lifetime lover. Heard the title, I would be interested, do not know if you are not too interested in it? I can only write all my notes to see if the.
The teacher said: upper society in the United States, 80% of households did so not married, even if another had married from 20% of households in the period of their marriage and also 10 years ago. However, the opposite of our country, our country is the upper class people are often high divorce rate, because of money, and that his wife is not pretty, not attractive, it changed. Alas!
First, a successful person, they often have the following qualities:
1. Honesty, integrity, educated
2. Have good social skills
3. Have good ideas
4. Spousal support
5. Strive to maintain a work
Second, the values of happiness. Happiness comes from balance, and only family harmony can there be a better career development. Is family first, business second. If you want to be well dealt with three kinds of people happy relationship: 1. Interpersonal relationships; 2. The relationship between man and nature,; 3. The relationship between man and the spiritual world
Third, the factors affecting marriage
1. Loyalty
2. Responsibility.
Teacher told a story embodies the meaning of responsibility. A company's CEO, is a very successful person. One day, his wife, a car accident, became a vegetable. He no longer work, every day Qupei his wife to take care of his wife. Chairman and CEO to find and talk to him, the chairman said the company's name to find a few nannies to care for his wife all day, so that CEO can have more time to take into account the company. CEO is against, the chairman said: "She is a vegetable, and even if you know nothing of the care of her every day, she did not know who you are, and a nanny and your care is no different." However, one CEO said: "When she did not know who I am, I want to know who she is."
3. Considerate
Marriage are two different backgrounds of life, the combination of the two families, this combination will inevitably have some problems. Then both sides can accept each other's strengths in the same time to accept each other's shortcomings.
How to considerate, requires three areas: understanding, caring, respected.
This life of a man is to "face" and live, a woman life is to "love" live. If you understand this, respected no longer difficult.
4. Capable
A woman in need of financial independence. Self-reliance, self-reliance. There is a saying that good "is the world's most unreliable man's shoulder." And sisters, remember this phrase it.
Women can not remember the tone of command to the command of your husband. The adaptability of man to believe a woman should not teach your wife to do things over time, she would create a dependency.
5. To fully support each other
Fourth, marriage is in need, the needs of men and women are different, according to authoritative statistics world, each of the five needs of men and women, but there are five levels of demand relations.
Five men needs:
No. 1: sexual gratification.
Second place: playing to a
Reflects this need, a common hobby, a common language. Such as her husband said that today want to go fishing, his wife would soon wear sports shoes, pick up the fishing rod departure. If the wife can accompany her husband to play all of his favorite projects, then he will look for other playmates it? Even went to, he would think of his wife at home.
Third place: wife attractive.
Men are visual to love and life, women are using their hearing and feeling to love and life.
Now many women are up in the morning when her husband not in costume, put on beautiful clothes and go out. Evening so my husband got home, his wife already unloaded a good makeup, wear their own dirty pajamas watching TV in the house. This husband is very poor, can not see the most beautiful side of his wife, when her husband's friend said to him, "Your wife is very beautiful Yeah," her husband would be very surprised, because he did not seen his wife pretty face. So, many women should pay attention to their underwear, lingerie counter the high-end shopping malls in pajamas, from dozens to tens of thousands of both. Why is there such a high price underwear then? To wear inside my coat, who can not see, why so pricey? Hope that the sisters think about this issue.
Fourth place: wife, mother.
For a man, he hopes his wife can take care of our child and family at home. But this is only the fourth man needs. So sisters, do not think you are married to the monotonous for the home and children to pay, our husbands need is not a nanny. Think of the wife by her husband abandoned it, most of them a devoted husband to the family in order to pay for their children, but they been abandoned, their divorce after her husband very surprised, "Why should I order The family paid so much, you will abandon me? "That is, you do not know man, you do not know what the needs of men, if men know the sisters, then the first few needs, but also just keep the to pay it?
Fifth place: great admiration for their
A wife said to her husband "my husband really smart." "Husband, you're ill." Such words of praise, but another wife Quedui husband said: "You see people Xiao Li's husband, multi-talented ah, the wage earned more than You see you, a worthless wretch. "As a man, you'll like what wife?
The needs of men had finished, need sisters careful note of good. Said the following about the needs of women, who need her husband, or did not marry boys remember better.
Five women needs:
No. 1: warmth, romance, love
Woman is by hearing and feeling love and life, and because of that, will someone say "fall in love woman, IQ equal to zero." Words, not that we really do not when in IQ, and not to judge and analyze, but rather that we women will listen to some of man "rhetoric" will to believe in every man for himself and create a surprise. So there will be a lot of pretty girls, married her husband a more ugly situation.
If you want your wife will love you, then, as a man, you first need to do is this.
Second place: talk (commonly known as: Love nag)
Woman's nature is love chatter. When a woman nag, men will often feel very tired of feeling this time. If you want to do better on when not heard, the left ear to listen, right ear out. If you do a bad man, would say, "Hello Fana, nagging what ah, this thing, you say a lot of times," and this white woman's heart is hurt.
Not only reflected in the chatter on the talk can also be reflected in all aspects of life. When the job goes wrong when the wife will work as her husband talk to the discontent, when the good man should understand the feeling of sympathy you passed to her, tell him you understand, help her analysis, and enlighten her. However, if a wife said to her husband When things work, but to hear her husband say, "You break those units do, do, and I said, I do not want to hear." Men, you know when your wife how sorry you ? And so, the communication between husband and wife, how to be realized?
Third place: loyal, honest
Do not lie man. If you spread a lie, said before a woman will doubt your all.
Fourth place: economic support.
Fifth place: the family's commitment to
Women need a man full of promise. Example, to accompany her husband promised his wife to go shopping, but to the mall, the husband found a place for, say, "you visit this bar, I am here waiting for you." This time his wife will be very happy, then do not come, her husband's pledge is "I will accompany you to go shopping, buy clothes," but to the mall turned into "I accompany you to the mall, I layer wait for you, visit this yourself. " Such a commitment not to become a complete.
In fact, to accompany his wife when the man from the real visit this finished shopping, you will find a man holding a bag of clothes are still mostly men, and this is a woman for a complete commitment to her husband as a reward.
5, marriage advice
1. With the affirmative evidence to tell him (her) "I love you."
2. Often send some small gifts. These gifts do not necessarily require very affordable, to have that feeling.
3. With his (her)
4. For him (her) to do something
A mother will do for their children many things without asking. Both husband and wife should be treated as the mother's state of mind as a child to do something for each other
5. Touching and sexual
Men tend to often do is to point 5 above, while women need men to do it exactly, a former four.
6, the marriage of two concepts
1. Marriage is a business out of the well-being, the same worry as business management.
2. Men need to be occupied, and women need is felt.

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